Wednesday, October 24, 2012

hi, my name is rosy and 2 months ago i found out i was pregnant. Im only 15years old and i am very scared i have no one to turn to and no support i lost all my friends and my parents will kill me if they find out. they always tought i was a perfect child. i cannot have this baby by myself i dont know who the dad is i was raped at a party i was  under the influence ,i didnt want to go to a hospital because i was scared and i didnt want my parents to find out i was at the party but now things turned to the worst. i cry every night i dont know what to do can you please help me? i think i want an abortion ? do you think its a good option or adoption ? please help me im very confused and scared /.\
                                                                                              thank you

9 comments:

  1. i work for Safe Alliance,with the teen clinic we help anyone that is going through a hard time.. you can reach us at 800 736 1060... your not alone we support you in any decision, Rosy you should visit a clinic to check your health make sure everything is okay and that your baby is okay, how many months are you now ? it might be too late for abortion, but theres many more options, why not try talking to your parents ? they have to understand, what your going though this is not an easy thing to go through alone you need the support of your parents... you have to make the right choices now

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  2. thank you i really appreciate your help i am 3 months pregnant now and im thinking of an open adoption is there anyway you can help with that? or is it something i have to do with someone else? you are very right i need to tell my parents right away. is there anymore tips you cant help me with? ):

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  3. adoption ? do you really think thats the best option for you and your baby? its going to change your life, you really have to think things through talk to your parents first let them know whats going on and together you'll make the right decision,adoptiton is a process that you have to stick with after you make the choice, im positive we can find loving parents for your baby...you can reach me at the teen clinic, lets meet and have a conversation, everything is confidencial, you need a check up with a doctor, the first few months are the hardest in a pregnancy...let me know when you can! make right choices!

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  4. i am not sure yet i am really confused but i will let you know when decide to tell my parents thank you very much once again and your very right i need to think about my decision can you tell me some dates we can meet up and talk and make some choices we need your help
    thank you,Rosy

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  5. yes please talk to them explain to them eveything they will understand, and help you out through this, they need to help you make right choices now in your life, think things through with them in whats the best choice for you and your baby, something that makes you comfortable... you can reach me 24hrs at the Safe Alliance number,for any emergency, you should come by the teen clinic as soon as possible, Monday-Friday from 7am-2pm,remember is not only your life that you have to take care of now, you need a checkup,you can come anyday just let me know ? make the best choices for your self and your baby.. nothing is your fault ot the babies

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  6. yes once again thank you for all your help i will call you in a couple days to make an appoinment i really appreciate it miss. byee

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  7. okay im glad i was able to help you, give me a call, see you soon

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  8. 2years later !
    hey there how are you doing well needless to say i kept my baby and im doing very well hes a little boy named jayson hes so adorible and i love him i dont know what i would do without him thank you for all your help and making me realize abortion wassent the best option my family and friends are really supportive and were all one happy family now well thios is my very last post :) im ready to start a happy healthy family from now on thank you so much rosy & jayson <3

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  9. awee im so glad, things got better for you.. im glad you didnt abort your baby it wasnt his fault.. he deserves to be happy and you too, i hope things get way better, im glad you guys made it thought the hard times, wish you the best!(: <3

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